Memorial Day Cookouts & Remembrance










Memorial Day is a federal day of remembrance.  It began as a way to remember those who died during the U.S. Civil War, but now it is a day to remember all who have served in the military, including our current troops.

Many people take the time to visit the graves of their loved ones who were veterans of war, while some have just placed flags on graves for those who served, even without knowing those soldiers personally.  This is a day of remembrance for those who lost their lives in war.

While I agree that these men and women should be remembered, I also urge you to remember those who currently serve (and yes, they are celebrated in November). But I think the sacrifices these troops make, and in some cases, the legacy that they continue, is just as important as those who have passed before us.

I’m lucky to know many current members of the military who have bravely fought, served, and returned home in one piece, but there are so many who are still emotionally, psychologically, and physically scarred.  These men deserve our care and consideration on this day.  Rather than have a cookout or place a flag on a grave — though you can still do those things, too — why not volunteer in a VA for an hour or take some hard-earned cash and donate it to a veterans organization, like the Wounded Warrior Project.

Enjoy the time you have off with veterans and family.  Make the most of it before it’s gone.

RIP Vovo — WWII veteran.


  1. Anna (Diary of an Eccentric) says

    It is very important to remember the reason for the holiday. It’s not just about cookouts.

  2. I am glad someone had a couple of cookouts!! I really want some grilled salmon or a nice burger right now. It’s only 8:30 am here! I am starving.

  3. Lovely post, Serena. Today is a day for remembrance and gratitude.

  4. bermudaonion(Kathy) says

    Very nice post! My dad was a veteran of 3 wars.